The Drive Home: What to Say to Your Young Athlete After a Bad Game (and Every Other Moment That Matters)

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The Drive Home

What to Say to Your Young Athlete After a Bad Game (and Every Other Moment That Matters)

A field guide for the hardest eight minutes of the week. What to say (and what to stop saying) on the drive home, before the game, after a good game, and through tryouts, playing time and the long game. Includes the exact scripts.

5 / 5 from 2 Amazon reviews · Paperback $17.97

Why this book

The book the blog's most-read cluster already supports: the car ride home, post-game conversations, and sideline behaviour.

Not to be confused with a differently authored youth-sports book of the same title.

What's inside

12 chapters.

  1. The Gap Between What You Meant and What They Heard
  2. Your Face Is the Scoreboard
  3. The Last Ten Minutes Before
  4. The Drive Home
  5. After a Bad Game
  6. After a Good Game
  7. The Coach
  8. Playing Time, Tryouts and Getting Cut
  9. Why They Play (and How to Not Break It)
  10. Confidence Is Not a Pep Talk
  11. The Other Kids and the Other Parents
  12. The Long Game

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