Winning the Inner Game: Mental Tools for Young Athletes to Develop Grit, Focus & Emotional Control

For Young Athletes · Ages 8 to 12

Winning the Inner Game

Mental Tools for Young Athletes to Develop Grit, Focus & Emotional Control

The mental gym for young athletes. Nine chapters of practical tools (the Confidence Resume, the Flush It Rule, the Circle of Control, the Mistake Quota and the 60-Second Grit Drill) that turn "just be confident" into something a kid can actually practise.

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Why this book

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What's inside

9 chapters.

  1. The Confidence Resume: Believing You Belong
  2. Be Your Own Best Coach: Mastering Self-Talk
  3. The Movie in Your Mind
  4. Turning Nerves into Superpowers
  5. The "Flush It" Rule: Bouncing Back from Mistakes
  6. Control the Controllables
  7. The "Not Yet" Superpower
  8. The Science of Grit (Building Your Brain)
  9. Level Up: The Real Game vs. the Video Game Trap

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